Sunday, January 9, 2011

Alright this post is just some random post, but not totally random.
I wish to blog about how friends actually keep in contact after they graduated.

In school, we are in the same class so we simple hang out everyday.
But once the holiday are here or even when we graduated, there is no chance we will meet,
unless we meet up.

So yea? Meet up..what kind of meet up?
The meet up can be due to same interest..
like both of them wanna catch a movie, they will meet up
play a kind of sport, they will meet up.
like to play a certain game, they will meet up
like to visit museum,they will meet up.
the most common one will be dinner(cuz practically everyone eats)

What if you guys are friends, and wish to stay in contact after you graduated.
BUT do not have common interest?

HOW?
HOW?
HOW?

Don meet up arh? Cancel this friend arh?

HAHA...either one will have to learn to take the interest of the other friends
(or the majority of friends )
To illustrate..for example.
FriendA nv plays tennis, but his group of friends enjoy the game.
Thus FriendA try to takes up the game, in order to stay in contact with his friends.

Alright..this solution seems perfect right?

Nah..It is only perfect, if FriendA realised he/she loves tennis.
What if he/she don really like it?
But still wants to stay in contact with his friends?

If he/she still continue tennis, it will be going against her will right?
And when this happen, FriendA's grp of friends should try to take up her interest.
For example, friendA enjoy visiting the museum.His/her friend should try visiting museum with her right?

only then, they can still keep in contact in a natural way.

In short..it is just about give and take..
No one should demand others to take up their own interest, but they can always try.
cuz there is no one single interest that one person should deem to take up.
everyone enjoy different things in their life.

To all my reader:If you are one of those that always wants your friends to follow your way, i think it is time to follow their way,at least for once.
If you realise, you are always going out for interest that u don really enjoy, maybe it is time to voice out your opinion.
Only then your friendship can last!

p.s: This is post is just my thought, it follows no specific logic in the world.